When it comes to orgasms, you really can't have too much of a good thing. While some people with a vagina are able to have multiple orgasms fairly easily, it tends to be a bit trickier for the penis-owning population, thanks to that pesky refractory period getting in the way. If only there were ways to orgasm without ejaculating and triggering that refractory period, amirite? Oh, wait. There are!
How to Have Multiple Orgasms When One Just Isn’t Enough
The multiple orgasm: Does it exist and who knows for sure?
There will be a man and a woman and they are having sex. Up against a wall, in a bed, in a car, anywhere. Vertically, horizontally. Clothed or unclothed. None of that matters, because the outcome will be the same. Within a minute, usually, the man and woman will have an orgasm at the same time. It will be visible, spectacular, satisfying.
Yes, You Can Double Your Pleasure In Bed
So you want to learn how to have multiple orgasms. Who could blame you? While there is no universal way to guarantee multiple orgasms, experts do have tips for making it happen. Read on for some of the best strategies for making multiple orgasms way more likely the next time you feel up for round two or three or four.
Let's get something straight: Having multiple orgasms isn't some exotic skill; it simply means having more than one peak during a single sex session — which could mean within minutes, hours, or an entire evening, says REDBOOK Love Network expert Lou Paget, author of The Big O. And it's easier for women to have multiple O's than for men because the female body doesn't go through a post-orgasm recovery period, meaning we can stay aroused longer and get heated up again and again. Want to give it a try?